Learn to say NO

I always regret for all the things that I did When I was anger.

Let me tell you one of my life story.

I used to edit photos for my PET Sir(School Sir), mostly for newspaper publishing purpose and when I mean editing I just add some saturation to the image and that's it. He also told me that I need to edit the marriage banner for his brother and I accepted it.

But I don't have time for that nowadays and he requested me to edit marriage cut-out aka flex board or display board for his brother's marriage function but I don't have interest on editing that.

So, I pretend that I'm not in home and in my relatives home, I also mostly don't answer his calls most of the times.

So, he used to call my brother because my brother still studying there.

I also told my brother to pretend that we are not at home and he also did that.

One day he came to my home but luckily I was in my relatives for real.

My parents came to know all these and my mom ended up with helping him and told me to edit the photo for the marriage but I disagree with that.

In the end, My father also supported my mom and ended up with agreeing with them.

My brother called to my PET sir and told that I'm back to home.

And we started to edit the photos for the program but my laptop only had 4GB RAM, which is not sufficient for those edit.

Becuase I need to edit in high resolution (nearly 300-500inches).

I also need to remove many background and my Laptop doesn't worth for those stuffs and I also need to switch from Photoshop 7 to Photoshop 2022 because removing BG in latest version is easier then removing it in PS 7.

I was stressed because I need to edit 7+ Photos.

I edited 3 of them but the printing company rejected it as it have low quality images and texts.

I forgot to mention that My PET sir told to me remove him and his wife from the banner board that made for their marriage and replace it with his brother and his wife.

As I removing stuffs can be easily done in PS 2022 but Writing in tamil fonts can only be done in PS 7.

Therefore switching between them took a lot of time and felt really very stressed.

In the lunch break my PET sir brought me briyani but I told I don't need but he told me that If I gone home I might not come back again to edit the photos.

So, he bought briyani and I ate it. It was worth nearly 170INR.

After that I was too stressed beacuse all the photo edits that I sent was completely have low quality text aka previous banner text.

I needed to increase the resolution, my laptop lagged a lot.

Around 3PM My mom called me for purchasing the neccessary stuffs for college as I was going to stay in hostel.

But I told her I need to edit lot of stuffs and I also told that I was suffereing here because of you.

As I mom told me to do that. I even showed some anger to my brother, who was near to me.

But I didn't show any dis-respect or anger to my PET sir.

I think he know that I'm stressed. So he hired another company to edit the banner and in the end I edited 3 banner and I was satisfied all the edits that I did.

In the marriage, he didn't used any banner that I edited.

In conclusion, here are the things that I leanrt.

1. Never promise a thing that you can't deliver.
2. Start saying NO in the first place, instead making excuses.
3. If the 2 points are not followed then it may result in waste of time.
4. I need to control my emotions (Anger, Happy, Sad) and need to stop making decision in those emotional situations.